Friday, September 4, 2020

Go watch The Peanut Butter Falcon

 Hi Friends,

I'm trying something new this week: Friday Favorites. More than ever, I'm looking for good books, movies and TV shows. 

I'd like to use this forum to share recommendations. I've already gotten some great ideas from my Facebook followers, but now I have some recommendations to share, too.

This Friday, I'm recommending The Peanut Butter Falcon. We watched it last weekend, and it was awesome. Great for the whole family. 

What good movies have you seen lately? Bonus points if it's appropriate to watch with teens and tweens!

Mom texts "OK"; Family thinks she's mad for a week

I was surprised to learn a few months ago that texting "OK" is a real no-no.

When texting with younger folk, it’s best to portray approval with “KK” or even writing out, “okay.” An “OK” sent via SMS has a strong sense of “FU” about it, at least to the younger crowd.

And that was the inspiration for my latest satire for MockMom: Mom texts "OK"; Family thinks she's mad for a week.



Wednesday, August 12, 2020

Covid gave my teens grown-up worries

Here's my latest article about parenting in Covid-times, written for Your Teen For Parents: Covid gave my teens grown-up worries.

Thanks for reading!



Thursday, June 18, 2020

When being tall means you get treated like you're older

I pitched this article to Parents Magazine what feels like a lifetime ago. I was thrilled when they accepted it. But then a pandemic hit, and I questioned if it would ever get published.

Well, this morning it did.

Woo-hoo!

When being tall means you get treated like you're older.


Tuesday, May 19, 2020

2020 problems

I haven't felt inspired to write much lately. But I had this experience yesterday and figured that others could relate. 

Here's my first meme in a new series, "2020 Problems."


Wednesday, March 4, 2020

How a snack cake gave me a glimpse of the future

It's an honor to have my second article shared in the Christian Science Monitor. This one is about love. And perspective. And Zebra cakes.

How a snack cake gave me a glimpse of the future.

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Tuesday, March 3, 2020

Two light switches were exactly what my toddler needed

Check out my latest article for Scary Mommy. It may sound familiar, it was originally posted right here.

Two light switches were exactly what my toddler needed.

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Thursday, February 6, 2020

A surprise trip left me all wet... but isn't that every day as a parent?


My latest article for Your Teen magazine is about my less-than-perfect surprise trip to a waterpark hotel with my family.

A surprise trip left me all wet. But isn't that every day as a parent?

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Tuesday, February 4, 2020

I'm teaching my teens self-advocacy by asking these 5 questions

My latest article for Grown & Flown lists the five questions I ask my kiddos to help teach them about advocating for themselves.

I've been doing this since they were little.

Now it's helping them in middle school, and I expect it will continue to benefit them in high school, college and in life.

Check it out:  I'm teaching my teens self-advocacy by asking these 5 questions.





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Friday, January 31, 2020

Tuesday, January 28, 2020

What I learned about parenting from two light switches.

For nearly a year, I carried light switches around in my purse.

You read that right. Two light switches. One traditional-style white one, the other off-white with a 1-inch-wide, 3-way rocker.

Why?

Because when my son was 2, he liked to strip naked and run through the house turning off every light he could reach.

In public, he usually stayed appropriately clothed but I often had to intervene as his grabby little mitts attempted to flick every toggle, turn every knob and push every button that crossed our path.

Elevators were a nightmare during that phase, and fire alarms gave me heart palpitations.

During one particularly exasperating errand run, I brought my little man to the doorknob aisle of our local hardware store where he could have spent hours turning, pushing, pulling and locking. Finally, he was satisfied, and my frazzled self could take a breath.

And that’s when the idea struck! I bet those two plastic rectangles were the cheapest toys I ever purchased.


When my high-energy little guy lunged for the buttons on an elevator, or even worse, started eyeing fire alarms, that extra hardware saved me.

I’m sure I looked very odd, waiting in line to get my driver’s license renewed with my toddler on my hip flicking those toggles up and down, up and down.

I’m sure I raised some eyebrows at the dentist office and the bank with these unconventional toys.

And I probably confused my child a bit, too. Every time he flicked those unwired, solitary switches, he scanned the room to figure out what exactly he was turning on or off. I’m sure he was disappointed when we weren’t plunged into darkness.

Weird as it looked, it worked for us. And that’s all that matters.

In this age of endless parenting advice, from social media, blogs, articles and everyone you meet, no one is going to tell you to buy two light switches to carry around in your purse for occupying your handsy toddler. But for us, it was the perfect solution.

When I started carrying around light switches in my purse so many years ago, I gave myself permission to focus beyond the prescribed parenting manuals and popular conventions. In doing so, I met my son’s challenges, stoked his interests, and encouraged his curiosity and creativity.

Plus, I learned that when it comes to parenting, sometimes you just gotta do what works for you and your family.

Even when it looks a little silly.

Tuesday, January 7, 2020

If you see a kid do something good, tell their parent

I'm pleased to share my first article of 2020: If you see a kid do something good, tell their parent.

Excerpt: Even though it’s a small thing, those words made my day. Maybe my week. In fact, my insides went all soft and gooey, and my eyes may have turned a bit misty.



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